Friday, 6 January 2017

PREFACE

Preface
When I was thinking of this study, I shared it with a closed friend. His first reaction was that it is non-productive and futile exercise. I fully agree with him. I shared with him a speech by an English Speaker in their parliament. However he did not make any comment on it.
                                                                                                         Lord Macaulay's speech in the British Parliament on 2nd February 1835. I reproduce the quote below:                                                                             
"I have traveled across the length and breadth of India and I have not seen one person who is a beggar, who is a thief. Such wealth I have seen in this country, such high moral values, people of such caliber, that I do not think we would ever conquer this country, unless we break the very backbone of this nation, which is her spiritual and cultural heritage, and, therefore, I propose that we replace her old and ancient education system, her culture, for if the Indians think that all that is foreign and English is good and greater than their own, they will lose their self-esteem, their native self-culture and they will become what we want them, a truly dominated nation."

After reading I do not think that I have to reconsider it further. So I started it .The basic aim was that I must know about my Biradari especially in view of the present scenerio.After I started it ,some of my friends who were also interested to know it ,shown their interest to know it. When I shared the information with them, they not only appreciated but also suggested to prepare in such a way that a fellow who is also interested to make use of it.
Today we consider so many customs as blind faith the reason behind is we do not know much about it. I have tried to study some of these customs being followed may be centuries together and what so ever I have come to know is before you. My intention is not that you follow these customs but to understand that. Follow or not to follow is yours choice and decision.
The idea came primarily during 1994 when I associated myself with the study on Batwal biradari by the central govt through census department and its meeting which was scheduled at my village; I had a privilege to organize it.
The knowledge about the Biradari was shared frequently during the my visits to Punjab, Haryana ,Delhi and its NCR and in Kaman of Bharatpur Rajasthan and those people use to consider that it is the duty of Jammu people to tell them and their expectations were based on multi factors.
When I started to inquire about our past and also about the Kuldevs and kuldevis, I used to visit to senior and old members of that clan and reply generally was very interested. Sir such and such fellow knows about it.Ok where I can find him. Sorry sir he has died.
It is of course my first step towards such type of activity and I hope many people will come forward to further continue it since it should not be stopped but a continue process. Dear friends I am not a scholar but what’s so ever I have read, shared with the elders and older, am sharing with you.
I am thankful to all who helped me do do this job.I must mention here Sh R L Kaith and Dr Roshan Lal since it could not have started without their
I am waiting for your suggestions which may please be sint on the following address:-

Phone no. 94192-58900
           Email grkaith@yahoo.co.in
Thanx
                                                 G.R. Kaith


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